Free Will: When one has free will, he or she makes their own decisions of free and independent choice. It is important to make decisions to make one self happy, as one should act out of personal choice. Humans are not controlled by physical or divine forces so it is truly a matter of desire. To quote a Rush song named after me, “if you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.” That is, free will is any decision one makes out of their own choice.
Responsibility: Responsibility is the state of being answerable and accountable. While your “free will” may be fun for awhile, it is important to face your responsibilities and do what is asked and expected of you. One who is not responsible will not be given the opportunity to use their free will and make independent choices. I do not think free will is a bad notion, although I think it must be coupled with more realistic qualities for a person to be successful in this world.
Free Will: I agree that making decisions out of one’s free will is not the only important thing in life. And while I understand that being responsible is an important quality to have, and can be coupled with free will in a balanced way, I believe that free will should be chosen over responsibility in some respects. Is it so wrong for a person to, for example, choose not to do their homework one night because they need some sleep? In this case, I think that using one’s free will to decide to get some sleep is a better decision than doing the responsible thing and finishing one’s homework.
Responsibility: This is an interesting example you give, as I see the act of forgetting about one’s homework for a night and getting some sleep as the truly responsible decision. I think this shows that an action out of free will can also be a responsible action. I truly think you and I can coexist.
Free Will: Maybe you are right. It's just a matter of balance.